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Rolling. Action. Cut.
Are you comfortable in your own presence? Can you sit alone with your thoughts? I can’t. I like to bury myself in conversation, laughter, and the company of others. I like hearing reviews of the version of myself I put on display. That I’m nice, funny, energetic. When the cameras are rolling, I am myself, but a little more. Slightly more polished, so I’m not sent back to the editing room. I smile so I’m not deemed defective. I laugh so I’m not seen as sad. There’s a fear that
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Jan 212 min read


Friendship
Friendship is such a big part of who we are. It’s the company we keep around us. It’s what and who we talk about. The secrets we share and the secrets we keep. It’s picking each other up when we fall, brushing our knees and our tears, and being able to laugh about it all. It’s not always perfect, because we’re bound to annoy each other. We’re only people, after all, and we’re learning. But we’ll always be there, no matter how mad, because no one wants to be alone when they’re
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Jan 103 min read
See Yourself As I Do
I wish you could see yourself the way I do, to see the beauty and not what you need to "improve." I wish you could understand that the insecurities you hold aren't waiting to unfold. Your grip on them, with white knuckles to keep them hidden, only exhausts you. They aren't trying to run away and show the world who they are. They belong to you. They were born in the back of your mind and grew up under your skin, raising the hair on your arms and the speed at which your heart b
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Nov 8, 20252 min read
Order #1264
I met up with my younger self for coffee. We agreed to meet at 10:00 a.m. She texted me at 9:55 saying she was just leaving. I replied...
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Oct 9, 20253 min read
The Ache and The Answer
Sometimes grief doesn’t just arrive, it knocks on doors that were supposed to be sealed shut. When my grandfather passed away, with his...
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Sep 7, 20254 min read
The Road
From nothing To something To the thing I was walking around a green meadow with my arms outstretched and my head held back. I wasn't...
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Jul 23, 20253 min read
Dear Me,
It’s been five months, and I’m coming to understand that there’s no time limit to grief. You feel what you feel. It’s not something to...
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Jun 10, 20251 min read
Dear Grandad,
I saw you in a butterfly today. It was a monarch. I don't know if you liked butterflies. But it looked free, and it reminded me of...
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Jun 9, 20251 min read
Must Have Been The Wind
Sitting in a field, I reached for the only dandelion there. It was aged, so its petals had turned to fluff. The wind picked up around...
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May 14, 20253 min read


Persevere
For the past few months, I’ve been living in a state of survival. Doing what must be done not because I want to, but because I have to....
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Apr 22, 20253 min read
Remember
I was travelling through a tunnel with a bright torch, lighting my path ahead and guiding me forward. Until the world around me shook and...
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Mar 9, 20252 min read
Refill, Spill, Drain and What Remains
When someone leaves, it's like they've poured out a glass of water and left. But the presence of an empty glass presses down on me. The...
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Feb 24, 20252 min read


It's Okay
It's okay to be angry. It's okay to feel rage. It's okay to be stubborn. It's okay to feel pain. It's okay to be sad. It's okay to be...
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Jan 17, 20254 min read


Let go; hold on?
When is it time to let go? How do we know when we should hold on? 2024 has been a fast moving year. It was busy, loud, nauseating,...
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Jan 2, 20252 min read


The Raindrop and the Leaf
Grief is knocking at my door again, waiting to come in. I look around to see it's almost time for her to collect another person I love....
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Dec 10, 20243 min read


Take Care
What is love? Is it the connection between a mother and her child? A bond between friends? Two people in a relationship? Is it the pride...
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Nov 13, 20242 min read


The Lighthouse
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our...
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Oct 17, 20242 min read


Hope
How is it that we have so little hope for the future? How is it that we wake up every day dreading what comes next? We wake up and sigh...
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Sep 24, 20241 min read


The Power of Overthinking
The heat of a fresh tear Was the first thing I felt Since you paralyzed me. My lungs expanding Once you released me From your choking...
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Sep 3, 20242 min read


Who Am I?
"Who are you? Tell us more about yourself." Those questions are usually exceptionally difficult to answer. Is it because I don't know...
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Aug 4, 20242 min read
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